The Pleasure's All Mine
The Pleasure's All Mine explores the gamut of sexual activity that has been seen as strange, abnormal or deviant over the last 2,000 years, as well as heterosexuality and what it means.
Exploring letters, diaries, memoirs, court records, erotic books, medical texts and advice manuals, it shows how, for ordinary people, different kinds of sex have always offered myriad different pleasures. There never was a 'normal'.
Those who desired their own sex, those who liked dressing up as the opposite sex, those who enjoyed sado-masochism - all have been considered 'deviants' in the past - and some still are. Concomitantly there has been almost universal acceptance that unembellished vaginal penetration, performed by one man and one woman, is 'normal' sex.
I contest that this is an outdated view which has been socially constructed through religion, science, media and society. A new approach in examining sexuality in a more exploratory and diverse way is needed of we are to become a more inclusive world.